Terri Erickson
Lewisville, North Carolina, United States
Poet’s statement: When my brother was killed in a tragic accident before his 21st birthday, the anguish I felt was unbearable. Watching my parents, particularly my mother, mourn the loss of their only son was almost worse. In retrospect, it seems that the emotional agony of losing a child must be comparable to the physical pain of labor—that what my mother experienced was a kind of childbirth in reverse, meant to usher her child out of the world the same way she brought him into it. And she had to do it, alone. “After the Funeral” was written to honor my mother’s grief, and for all parents who survive their children.
After the funeral Mourners came and went all day, tossing casseroles and apple pies into the greedy maw of grief, though it was never satisfied. Their faces, bleached by sorrow, belonged to people we loved, neighbors we knew and even strangers—friends of friends who came to pay their respects. But my mother wanted no part of it. She was locked in the bedroom, laboring hard. It is work giving birth when you are middle- aged, to the same boy you brought home twenty years before. But it is necessary. Otherwise, how will you believe it? They say you had a son, but you can’t find him. His clothes are in the closet; his shoes on the stairs. There are pictures of him everywhere, but the boy, himself, is gone. So she is busy, pushing her child into the world, watching him walk, then run, then vanish as if he were never born. Yet, he was. The pain proves it. |
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TERRI KIRBY ERICKSON is the author of three collections of poetry, including her latest book, In the Palms of Angels, which recently won an international 2012 Nautilus Silver Award for poetry that “engenders compassion, wisdom, greater understanding, empathy, or passion through the artful use of language,” and the Gold Medal for Poetry in the 2012 Next Generation Indie Book Awards. Her award-winning work has appeared or is forthcoming in numerous publications, including JAMA, American Life in Poetry, 2013 Poet’s Market, The Christian Science Monitor, North Carolina Literary Review, storySouth and many others. For more information about her poetry, please visit her website at http://terrikirbyerickson.wordpress.com.
Highlighted in Frontispiece Fall 2012 – Volume 4, Issue 4
Fall 2012 | Sections | Poetry
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